Advertise with us!

Legatus Magazine

Susan Locke | author
Oct 01, 2016
Filed under Your Health

Conversation starters on mental health

There is no “one size fits all” solution when it comes to mental health. Healthnetwork Foundation addresses each family’s needs and questions with utmost confidentiality and compassion. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimates as much as 25% of the American population has some form of mental illness.

While many of us are open with our friends about our physical health, talking about mental health isn’t as easy. There is fear of embarrassment, being judged or stigmatized, and it may be difficult to find words to describe how they’re feeling. About 20% of teens meet the diagnostic criteria for a mental health disorder. Like adults, these teens are often afraid to talk about it. Some attempt suicide as a means of escaping mental illness symptoms. The most important thing parents or grandparents can do is encourage them to talk to you about the problem. Here are a few tips to help begin a productive discussion.

Open the line of communication with: “I’m worried about you.” “You don’t seem like yourself lately. What’s going on?” Ask them to let you help: “Can we talk about how we can make this better?” “Would you like me to help you make an appointment so you can talk with someone?” Above all, listen to their answers.

Emphasize that talking with you is a safe environment to discuss any issues respectfully and without judgment. Together, determine what steps need to be taken to get help. Here are some sample action plans:

Depression. Determine if they have suicidal thoughts or plan to hurt themselves. If so, take them to the nearest emergency room. If they express homicidal ideation, take them immediately to ER. Legally, the person being threatened must be warned about the threat. If they are suicidal or homicidal and refuse to go to the ER, call 911. If they’re depressed, but not suicidal, get them to a physician ASAP. Primary care physicians can be a great first step if they’re unable to see a psychiatrist right away. Make sure that they’re not alone. If they live alone, have someone stay with him/her.

Manic. Familiarize yourself with the symptoms of mania (unusually high energy and mood accompanied by at least three of the following symptoms): Needing less sleep in order to feel rested, talking rapidly or excessively, distractibility, tendency to show poor judgment, inflated self-esteem or grandiosity, reckless behaviors. If you determine that they are manic, seek medical help ASAP. They may need hospitalization.

Substance abuse. Determine if the individual is willing to seek help. If yes, have a professional determine what level of care is appropriate. Their primary care physician or a psychiatrist can help determine the next steps. Healthnetwork may also be able to assist with referrals. If they’re unwilling, consider staging an “intervention” under professional guidance where close friends and family confront the individual.

Forbes recently reported that the effects of mental illness in the U.S. cost nearly $210.5 billion a year in lost productivity and direct costs, with an estimated 19 million Americans afflicted with clinical depression. Mental diseases are real, diagnosable and often treatable. The first step to recovery is often asking, “How can I help you?” Fortunately, Legatus members have Healthnetwork as a partner to help find the right resources.

SUSAN LOCKE, MD is Healthnetwork Foundation’s medical director.

HEALTHNETWORK is a Legatus membership benefit, a healthcare “concierge service” that provides members and their families access to some of the most respected hospitals in the world. One Call Starts It All: (866) 968-2467 or (440) 893-0830. Email:

HEALTHNETWORK FOUNDATION is a non-profit whose mission is to improve medicine for all by connecting CEOs with leading hospitals and their doctors to provide the best access to world-class care and increase philanthropic funding for medical research.


Speak Your Mind

Tell us what you're thinking...

One thought on “Conversation starters on mental health

  1. Pingback: Gray Area

Leave a Reply

More Your Health Articles

More in Your Health
Back pain and the realities of surgical recovery

Statistics show that 80% of us will have at least one episode of low back pain during our lifetime. This is especially...